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QA188 QUESTION: My daughter and her hives – is that a form of punishing herself, or is it a result of feeling guilty toward her negative feelings?
ANSWER: I would say the hives are particularly a symptom, not of repressing the hate but acting it out and therefore feeling guilty and confused. More hate accumulates and then more rage. And it cannot be expressed. Even if it is acted out only to a degree, there is much more that does not know where to go, because the self-responsibility is absolutely rejected on an emotional level, still. And therefore, the hate cannot be seen for what it is. It must be excused; cases must be built.
