219 QUESTION: [Child] Sometimes I feel very sloppy, and I want everything to be very messy, like things thrown around where I live. And sometimes I feel like I want everything to be very nice. Why do I want things to be sloppy and messy?
ANSWER: Well, I would say perhaps because you are angry and do not know that you are angry. Is that possible? Maybe it would be very helpful for you if you feel you want to be disorderly, sloppy as you say, to ask yourself, “Am I angry? What am I angry about?”
It is so much better to know what you really feel than to not know what you feel. Then it comes about and around in a different way and then you become confused. It is very important to avoid this confusion and the Pathwork can help you to avoid such confusion by teaching you to know when you are angry.